Sunday, 14 March 2010
Happy Mother's day to all the mum's out there hope you get treated like a queen for the day...lol
Now i must thankyou all for the overwhelming support and wishes ,emails that you all left for me on Friday, concerning Sophie and the bullying .Im so sorry ive not had time to pop back on yesterday to let you all know how things went.Im here now !I took sophie to the drs Luckily i had an appointment my monthly check before her's so had chance to talk to the dr about Sophie.She was absolutely fantastic,sensitive and so caring towards her which this day and age hard to find in a Gp!She has totaly agreed with me over my intentions to remove sophie from the School until something has been sorted.She also rang me late afternoon just to say she was sorry she had meant to ring me at her lunch break to see how sophie was after her appointment .Which i thought was beyond her call of duty.I explained im sending in aletter on Monday to say why i have taken sophie out explained what i intended to write.She also said she is writing to the head of the whole school not just Sophie's year to explain that some action has to be taken now before Sophies health & school life is ruined.GP wants to know why they havent done anything before hand when the parents(US) have been down several times to no avail and this gang is still getting away with it!She also thinks it's disgusting how anyone can say she is taking it too personnaly.She is also getting in contact with C.A.M.S which is the childs mental services in this area.As she feels sophie is in need of there help urgently.Sophie spoke to her but no eye contact was made and she just sat there playing with her hands and at this point i just looked at this person and thought omg she isnt my happy smiling daughter i know and felt tear drop on my cheek thats when reality sturck .I have to be strong infront of her even though it pains me so mcuh to see her like this i have to be strong and have my wee tear when shes not around.
So all in all everyone is on my side with this.Today Sophie and i are going to plan her week and i am keeping every piece of work and a time table to show as proof that shes wants to learn. Sophie suggested we make a time table which is fab idea this is all evidence incase they turn round and say shes just lazy doesnt want to come to school.She has even done her homework which is to be handed in tomorrow so shes put in envelopes to appropriate teachers and has asked her sister to hand in tomorrow to the reception.
My heart goes out to you all for the support and friendship you have given me over the past couple days i know this isnt gonna be easy but we our strong and will battle this out.So it may be only a few words to you but to me it feels amazing that i have so many caring friends that take time out of there day to leave amessage and that ive never met yet know so well and are willing to be here for me when i have my moans ,
SO BIG THANKS TO ONE AND ALL!
All you Mum's have a lovely day!I cant be with mum but dad is going in with the cards and presents ,not that she will have a clue what's going on .But the main thing is shes my mum and i love her to bits!and we hopefully will see her at Easter as Andy has since booked annual leave as knows Sophie needs a break and i think we all will by then too.Sophie wants to go to the Lakes which is 45 mins away from dads so weather permitting we shall go.I will be back later with some lovely sweet and crafty Alzheimers giverway think im gonna have to call it the sunday giverway as friday just zoomed past.
Love n hugs